kuasa 3 patah perkataan

..tiba-tiba aku terbaca artikel ini..
yang akhirnya membawa aku jauh menerawang di alam fikiran..merenung jauh mengimbas kembali apa yang telah aku lalui..

semoga artikel ini bermanfaat utk anda yang membaca..(juga renungan aku sendiri)

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The Power of Three Little Words

Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

I'LL BE THERE - Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. 'Being there' is at the very very core of civility.

I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.

I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.

MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."

PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when others walk out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."

LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.

GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no one else has.

I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU.

Have a great day loving yourself and loving your loved ones!

Al Fatihah

terbaru .. 02:03p.m.
wkdin: John: Hi.. sesiapa nak ziarah arwah.. jenazah akan sampai di seremban 3 ptg nanti.. alamat rumah 205, taman dato syahbandar, ampangan

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01:35p.m.

dalam keadaan diri aku yang serba tak kena sejak akhir-akhir ini, aku benar2 terkejut mendapat berita lewat YM sebentar tadi, waktu rehat tghari..

alfatihah utk arwah Susanna Jafri dan Jebat Kasturi - msg YM dari mawar dan wkdin..

lantas segera aku berbicara dengan John Norafizan..mencari berita selanjutnya..
ifa_alyana :innalillahi wainna ilaihi roji'un,,,
ifa_alyana :hi john.. ifa alyana nih
ifa_alyana :arwah meninggal di mana?
john_nora :yeah
ifa_alyana :alfatihah..
john_nora :kajang semalam
john_nora :on the way to JB
ifa_alyana :dgn jebat? xcident?
john_nora :yeap
john_nora :ngan jebat skali.. dua2 meninggal dunia
ifa_alyana :semoga arwah berdua diampunkn dosa2 dan ditempatkan bersama org2 sholih..amin
john_nora :amin

itu saja yg aku dapat.
yang pastinya pemergian Kak Sue..benar2 menginsafkan diriku.. mengingatkan diriku bahawa bila2 saja kita akan dijemput menemuiNya. bersedia atau tidak..malaikat maut tak pernah akan menunggu.

Allah.. sesungguhnya Maha Kaya..

Kak Sue.. itulah panggilan yg dahulu sering aku laungkan.. saat bahagia bersama bersua dalam pertemuan yahoogroup akhir 2002..Relexjap..hingga terbentuknya Kelab Single RJ Aug 2003.. percutian di dusun durian Shah di Lenggong, Perak.. gathering RJ ke air terjun... pangsun.. ohh.. webmistress KSRJ site.. reading her blog.. let her join quizes.. hilang satu bintang Gemini yang sungguh mesra..

Semoga persemadian abadi beliau diterangi cahaya rahmat Ilahi..
Aminn..

Syahdu tak dapat memberi penghormatan terakhir sebelum dikebumi.

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petikan UTUSAN..

Suami isteri maut kemalangan
KAJANG 3 Mei – Sepasang suami isteri maut apabila kereta yang mereka naiki merempuh sebuah kenderaan lain milik seorang pelajar warganegara Arab Saudi dalam kejadian di Kilometer 292.4 Lebuh Raya Utara Selatan, dekat sini awal pagi ini.

Dalam kejadian pukul 2.24 pagi, Juhari Maswari, 51, dan isterinya, Susanna Jafri Tay, 33, yang menaiki kereta jenis Chevrolet mati di tempat kejadian akibat kecederaan parah di kepala dan beberapa bahagian badan.

Sementara itu, pelajar Arab Saudi itu, Hamtoush Abd. Aziz, 27, yang menuntut di Universiti Multimedia cawangan Melaka melecur teruk hampir 50 peratus bahagian badannya.

Juhari merupakan warganegara Singapura, manakala Susanna rakyat tempatan.

Difahamkan sebelum kejadian, kereta jenis Proton Gen-2 yang dipandu Hamtoush dipercayai hilang kawalan sebelum merempuh pembahagi kiri dan kanan jalan, menyebabkan Juhari yang memandu di belakang merempuh kereta itu. Menurut Ketua Polis Daerah Kajang, Asisten Komisioner Rosli Mohd. Nizam, kereta yang dipandu Juhari merempuh bahagian tangki minyak kenderaan Hamtoush menyebabkannya terbakar.

‘‘Hamtoush sempat keluar dari keretanya, bagaimanapun badannya melecur hampir 50 peratus,’’ katanya ketika dihubungi Utusan Malaysia di sini hari ini. Beliau berkata, siasatan awal mendapati Hamtoush yang datang dari arah Bukit Mahkota ke Kuala Lumpur dipercayai memandu terlalu laju sehingga hilang kawalan menyebabkan Juhari tidak sempat mengelak dan melanggarnya.

‘‘Akibat rempuhan yang kuat itu, pasangan tersebut mati ditempat kejadian manakala Hamtoush yang cedera parah dihantar ke Hospital Kuala Lumpur bagi rawatan lanjut,’’ ujarnya.

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dan dari Google.. dan Relexjap... rupanya Kak Sue hamil 6 bulan..hmm..*menarik nafas dalam.. betapa Allah sayangkan mereka sekeluarga.